Fluorescent Dreams Wax Cylinders - Coming out as... what?

28th of June, 2009

18:28 - Coming out as... what?

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Happy Pride Weekend!

The Bay Area Bisexual Network invited bisexuals to march with them in the Pride Parade.

I joined them. Happily! Joyfully!

As you can guess, the bisexual group and the polyamorous group are close cousins. The polyamorous group was float #91; the bisexual group was float #92.

Cool! The poly people are good folk, and I knew some of them.

For the Pride Parade, every vehicle needs four "wheel monitors": one person walking with each wheel, to make sure that no one gets under the wheel. I had taken the training, so I volunteered to be a wheel monitor.

At the start of the parade, all four wheels for the Bisexual group were covered, so I joined the group holding the banner. I joked to Dillo, the fellow next to me, "Do I qualify as out of the closet now?"

Happiness!

I walked about a third of the parade route, holding the banner with one hand and waving to people with my other hand, and having a wonderful time, until I was asked to take over as a wheel monitor...

...for the poly group ahead of us.

I switched off to that group, but I had a little problem. Though I'm very close to two wonderful people other than [info]misseli... I'm not poly.

I marched another third of the parade before I could swap off with someone else, to be a wheel monitor for the bisexual group.

But -- there are hundreds and hundreds of photos and video of me marching and outing myself with a group I'm not part of. Oh, well.

Take care, all...

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From:[info]tgeller
Date:2009-Jun-29 01:37 am (UTC)
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I carried the banner in the FTM group's first pride parade a few years ago. I rather like the idea that I'm (mis?)-identified as one. :)
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From:[info]tgeller
Date:2009-Jun-29 01:38 am (UTC)

P.S.

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...and I walked with the trans group this year in Cleveland's Pride parade.
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 01:40 am (UTC)
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Hee! Congrats!
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From:[info]wbwolf
Date:2009-Jun-29 01:47 am (UTC)

Impertinent question

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So... what's the point of the parades? I've heard about them for years, and I suppose they are a legacy of Stonewall... but why a parade?
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:09 am (UTC)

Re: Impertinent question

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Why not a parade?

A parade is a good way for groups to show themselves off, and to show support.

Basically, a parade says that: We are real people, and we are here.



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From:[info]kinnerc
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:32 am (UTC)

Re: Impertinent question

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Parades are actually the entire point and legacy of Stonewall. Parades are the only reason we remember the event.

I was actually having this discussion at my Meetinghouse today. Most folks believe that the Gay Civil Rights movement started with Stonewall, or that the Stonewall Riot was the first such event. Nope. There were other riots just like Stonewall in places in CA, but it was only Stonewall that inspired the Christopher Street Liberation Day parade the very next year. This was the world's first Gay Pride parade and was the event that transformed the movement from Dr. Kameny's "We're no different from anyone else. We're no threat. Honest!" mode to the "We're here! We're Queer! Get Used to It!" movement we know today.

Yea. Parades are everything, man. :-)
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From:[info]wordslinger
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:28 am (UTC)
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What a hoot!
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:38 am (UTC)
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*grin!*

The parade was wonderful! And I'm glad to have been a part of it.
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From:[info]drewkitty
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:43 am (UTC)
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>> I switched off to that group, but I had a little problem. Though I'm very close to two wonderful people other than [info]misseli... I'm not poly.

Huh? Arguably none of my business, but Color Me Confused.

Note however that I am not asking, at least not in this forum.

Thanks for being out in the parade and glad that you had a good time.
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 02:48 am (UTC)
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*grin*

Yes, we're both thinking of the same lady.

We're not having a sexual relationship.
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From:[info]rafn
Date:2009-Jun-29 03:21 am (UTC)
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(chuckles)
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From:[info]ladyegreen
Date:2009-Jun-29 03:47 am (UTC)
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Despite the wrong "outing" it does sound like you had a wonderful day.
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 03:57 am (UTC)
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*nodnodNODnodnod*

I certainly did!

(I adore my poly friends, and I was glad to help them out by being a wheel watcher...)
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From:[info]juverna
Date:2009-Jun-29 04:42 am (UTC)
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It was nice to meet you today! Your story's a funny one. Glad you had a great day. :D
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 03:35 pm (UTC)
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It was wonderful meeting you, too!

*grin* I had a blast. Thanks for being there.
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From:[info]polymathwannabe
Date:2009-Jul-1 01:59 pm (UTC)
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LOL! You two had never met before?
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From:[info]davesslave
Date:2009-Jun-29 06:20 am (UTC)
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I was up near the front, with the LG Freedom Band, drumming away.

Glad you marched in it, too!
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From:[info]chipuni
Date:2009-Jun-29 03:36 pm (UTC)
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*broad grin*

I heard their drumming! Neat!
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From:[info]jrittenhouse
Date:2009-Jun-29 06:03 pm (UTC)
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Glad you had a great time!

I keep getting mistaken for stuff I'm not - gay/bi, jewish, part black, and more.

(The fact that I'm in the 'bear' category, but straight as a board, and have a lot of gay/bi friends doesn't help, I suppose. At one point, I decided to flip some people out and do a proper camping-out with some obviously gay friends, and I guess I was pretty convincing - that was 20 years ago, and I *still* get an occasional comment from the way out end of nowhere about 'but I thought...' to me. If I show up on gaydar, they REALLY need it fixed.)
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From:[info]funcrunch
Date:2009-Jun-29 07:59 pm (UTC)
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It was lovely seeing you at the parade yesterday. Do drop me a line if you have time to get together sometime. I'm always on the lookout for more musical friends, monogamous or otherwise! :-)
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